Lets face it, most of us guys are far from being a Casanova. We could all use a little help in the romance department. Even if you are a little bit romantic, sometimes we forget to show it. Our ladies deserve to be shown love and affection constantly. Whether you have no romantic bone in your body, or you have trouble remembering, here are 20 unforgettable romantic ideas that will melt her heart . Make these a common practice and I promise she will thank you for it.
Romantic Ideas For Her
1.) Leave Small Notes
Leaving small notes in places is a great way to be more romantic. A sticky note on the bathroom mirror saying how much you care will definitely create a smile. I like to leave notes in my wife’s purse. It’s a nice little surprise later in the day when she finds it.
2.) Drive Bys (Email)
Every day send your loved one a “drive by” email. Title the subject Drive By and in the message put a one sentence note of appreciation. Do not put anything else in the email. Save the dinner plans or whose picking up the kids messages for another email. For example:
Her response by the way…
“Gah. I love you so much baby. That just made my day. I love you more!”
3.) Top 10 List
Create a top ten list of all the things you love about her. Be thoughtful and creative. It’s okay to put things like how sexy she is when she gets angry. It makes it a little more personal.
4.) Be More Affectionate
This goes without saying but a lot of guys forget about this sometimes. Sneak up behind her, hug her and kiss her neck. Hold her hand when walking, rub her shoulders, etc. Little shows of affection go a long way.
5.) Mail a Love Letter
Get old school and send her a hand written love letter through the mail. In this digital age, getting letters through the mail is rare. She will never see it coming. Even if you are living together, this is one sure-fire way to be more romantic.
6.) Leave a Single Rose on Her Windshield at Work
Imagine her surprise when she goes out to her car after work and sees a rose on her windshield. Make sure to leave a small note telling her how much you love her. Besides, leaving an anonymous rose may make her nervous. The creeper at her work should not be a consideration!
7.) Treat Her To An Appreciation Dinner
Take her out to a nice romantic dinner but make it about her. Tell her the special occasion is to show appreciation for all the things that she does. I advise making the appreciation dinner on a day other than her birthday, anniversary, Mothers Day or Valentines day. This should be an occasion all to itself.
8.) Give Her A Foot Rub
You can never go wrong with a foot rub. A perfect time to do this is while watching TV together. Have her put her feet on your lap and go to work!
9.) Draw Her A Bath
Gentleman, this is probably one of the best romantic ideas you’ll ever hear, so make sure you do this one. Surprise your woman with a hot bath. Light some candles, throw some bubble bath in there, maybe even poor her a glass of wine. Then give her some time to be alone, relax and unwind.
10.) Pick Her Flowers
Nothing says I love you more than flowers but go a step further and actually pick them. Not many of us have wild rose bushes laying around but when you actually take the time to pick them yourself, you’ll be amazed at how special side of the road wild flowers will become.
11.) Create A Coupon Book
This may seem cheesy but your women will love this. Create a coupon book yourself as opposed to going to the store and buying a generic one. This will give you a opportunity to customize your coupons according to her likes.
12.) Bring an Unexpected Gift
On the way home from work every once in a while, stop off at a store and get her a small gift. It doesn’t have to be big. It can be her favorite candy bar, or even Starbucks. This will show her that you are thinking about her.
13.) Webcam Message
Create a video of yourself for your woman telling her how much you love her. You can even read off a top ten list (see #3).
14.) Picnic in the Park
A picnic in the park is one of those special occasions she will never forget. Try to surprise her with this as well. Tell her you are taking her to lunch then relish the look on her face when you tell her it will be right there in the grass. Bring a blanket and plenty of wine.
15.) Mixed CD
Be a DJ on your own radio station… well mixed CD at least. Put together a CD of her favorite songs. Sprinkle in some audio of your own voice and she’ll have a gift she can listen to over and over.
Trust me when I say these romantic ideas will melt her heart. Even if any of them come off cheesy to her, at least laughter is the key to her heart.
What romantic ideas do you have? Let me know in the comments below.
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